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Well, this is very timely…I’ve just been debating these very things with my husband as we walked our dog - and come to very similar conclusions. This morning, I’ve been picking up litter and sorting out some issues resulting from the anti-social behaviour of a group of teenage boys who have recently moved into new housing near us. We are lucky to have lovely woods to walk in on our doorstep - in which they are literally digging up the paths to make bike ramps, damaging trees in the process & endangering walkers (including our 93yo neighbour) when they race round blind corners at speed as we try to enjoy our walks. This morning’s litter results from a Domino’s order placed by them to my address. It seems they waited for the delivery guy across from our house after I’d sent him away saying we hadn’t ordered pizza & then ate it in the woods & left the rubbish outside my house.

This is an escalating issue in which I am trying to engage all parties. I’m actually pleased the lads are on their bikes, playing outside & trying to build things rather than closeted in their rooms online looking at goodness knows what. But there’s no understanding that this is a shared space. I’ve tried engaging positively with them, asked them to take their litter home & not to damage the trees, to be mindful of other users of the space - to no avail. They say they have nowhere else to go - and I have sympathy with that. I’ve tried engaging with the Borough & Parish Councils & local MP about the lack of leisure facilities & activities for teenagers - met with a shrug & a comment about there being no money. I haven’t even bothered approaching the parents as I suspect that would be met with another shrug, or worse!

I totally agree that this is a collective responsibility issue - but collective responsibility only works if we are all collectively responsible! It’s hard to know what to do - but I plan to continue to lobby my elected representatives about the wider issues & point to brilliant initiatives like Physiology First & Youth Shed (similar to Men’s Sheds) which are supporting teenagers with essential leisure opportunities & life skills.

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